by Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

How To Move On From Betrayal

Wondering how to move on from betrayal? This is what over 200 women said they wished they knew sooner.

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Anne Blythe, M.ED

Video Lessons

Downloadable Workbook

13 Healing Meditations

How to Move on from Betrayal

The Answers You Need To Move On From Betrayal

For the chaos to stop, you need to understand what’s actually happening.

This gives you the clarity that’s been missing about what he’s doing and WHY, with strategies to gain peace quickly.

  • No blame.
  • No therapy jargon.
  • No pressure to work harder.

Just the truth and a way to peace that finally makes sense.

This Gives You...

a clear Roadmap

Know exactly what’s happening, what it means, and what to do next.

Principles to Guide You

Feel anchored when everything around you feels confusing.

Strategies for Peace

Feel calm in your body and home.

This workshop is for you if:

You're Separated & Feel A Bit Better with Him Out of The Home

Your Ex is Still Causing Chaos

You're Wondering If More Therapy will Help Even Though It Didn't Before

You've Discovered That Your Husband or Ex Lies About Almost Everything

You're Wondering if He's Emotionally Abusive

What's Included

Short, Clear Video Lessons

13 Meditations to Bring You Immediate Peace

Downloadable Workbook
…but you can also just use a blank piece of paper

What you’ll learn:

  • Daily strategies to reduce confusion.
  • A path to achieve your goals.
  • Strategies for peace without needing therapy or explanations.

$27 $85

Answers After Betrayal

Meet the Teacher

Expert Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Anne Blythe, M.Ed

Author, Founder & Executive Director

Anne is the Producer and Host of the The BTR.ORG Podcast and the author of Trauma Mama Husband Drama.

After spending seven years trying to make sense of her marriage and another eight years navigating the aftermath, Anne has interviewed more than 200 women who’ve experienced betrayal. Her work is grounded in their stories, in knowing exactly what women wished they’d known when they were confused, scared, and trying to hold their families together.

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

This workshop is the first thing since I found out about my husband’s betrayal that’s actually helped me feel excited about my future.

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I couldn’t sleep after I found out my husband had been lying to me for years. But now, I fall asleep listening to one of Anne’s meditation almost every night.

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

So validating, powerful, and relevant. I NEEDED THIS. Every woman who has been betrayed by her husband needs this. Why isn’t anyone else teaching this stuff?

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I was at wit’s end after going to multiple therapists after my husband’s infidelity. I’d tried everything. This workshop finally helped me figure out why things hadn’t been working. Thank you, Anne!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

This so clearly shows the toxic communication patterns he was using. It was like Anne had screenshots of my husband’s texts. I wish I would have known this four years ago!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I’d been going to therapy for years. I was so sick of hearing myself talk about it. This helped me more than years of talk therapy!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

After this workhop, I finally knew what to do instead of go the rounds with him. So much better than the advice the therapist gave me that never worked.

Frequently asked questions

What if my biggest fear is that I’m the problem?

That fear is not accidental.

This will help you separate his lies from the truth. 

Women consistently say watching these videos was the first time they realized:

“Oh. I’m not failing. I’m responding normally to something abnormal.”

That realization alone brings enormous relief.

How is this different from other advice after betrayal?

Most therapy or advice after betrayal focuses on:

  • Repairing the relationship
  • Or alternatively, telling you to “run”
  • Either way, the advice will imply or say out right that you must try harder for things improve

This starts from a different place:

  • What if your confusion is a signal, not a failure?
  • What if the rules you’ve been following don’t apply here?
  • What if the problem isn’t your effort—but the situation itself?

That shift changes everything.

If you want to heal from your husband’s (or ex’s) betrayal, YES, this is for YOU!

Why focus on understanding him at all?

Because clarity creates leverage.

When you understand:

  • His patterns
  • His predictable patterns
  • How and WHY he escalates
  • What keeps him engaged (spoiler, it’s not your fault)

    This workshop teaches pattern recognition so you can move around him instead of into him.

    Is this about reconciliation or healing the relationship?

    It teaches how to end his emotional access to you. If he’s still lying and you want to heal from your husband’s (or ex’s) betrayal regardless of what he’s doing, YES, this is for YOU!

    Is this therapy?

    No.

    If you’re a victim of his lies, you didn’t do anything wrong and there’s nothing wrong with you, so why would you need therapy?

    These videos cover strategies to create emotional safety, which is not a therapeutic process.

    I won’t explore his feelings to honor them. It’s to educate you about his behavior so you can predict it and know how to strategically respond.

    What if I want him completely out of my life?

    That’s the goal for many women in this workshop.

    Living Free is for women who already see the pattern and want freedom from the stress and anxiety of figuring out how to respond to him at all.

    What will I actually learn?

    You’ll learn:

    • How to identify manipulation and how he traps you in his chaos
    • How to protect your nervous system during unavoidable contact
    • How to reduce frequency, length, and intensity of interactions
    • How to design your life so he no longer has access to you emotionally
    Will this make him more angry?

    The workshop prioritizes de-escalation and emotional safety.

    There are no confrontations, no dramatic exits, no emotional speeches.

    This often reduces—not increases—conflict.

    What if I’m still furious or disgusted?

    Good for you.

    That’s expected.

    Living Free does not require forgiveness, calm, or closure.

    It gives you tools to act effectively, and gives you space for your emotions to do whatever feels right.

    Freedom comes from structure, not serenity.

    What do women say after this workshop?

    Women often say:

    • “I can see what he’s going to do next from a mile away.”
    • “I stopped getting pulled in.”
    • “He lost interest in bothering me constantly.”
    • “I feel like I can finally breath.” 
    What happens if I don’t do this now?

    Nothing dramatic happens all at once. It just stays hard. That’s why over 200 women wanted to share their stories, so you didn’t have to go through what they did for years.

    Without these strategies (that almost no therapist or friend knows to tell you) the stress, anxiety, and constant mental effort of dealing with him continues, and many women realize later they’ve lost months or years to trying to manage a situation that never truly improves.

    Move On From Betrayal

    $27 $85 One Time