by Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

Clarity After Betrayal

This workshop is a series of short videos that will give you clarity after betrayal. It explains what over 200 women told me they wished they knew sooner. It provides answers you won’t find anywhere else.

To be clear, what I learned will not tell you what to do with your marriage. And it won’t ask you to stop therapy if it’s helping you.

What I am sharing with you? Something very few women ever get access to.

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Anne Blythe, M.ED

After Betrayal Women Said This is What They Wish They Would Have Known

They Wanted Other Women To Know...

I interviewed over 200 women and asked: “If you could go back in time and tell yourself one thing the moment you discovered his betrayal, what would it be?”

Their answers were heartbreaking, consistent, and incredibly wise.

They shared what they wished they’d known (not because they failed), but because they wanted YOU to avoid the years of confusion, pain, and false starts they went through.

Clarity After Betrayal helps you understand why he betrayed you (spoiler: it wasn’t your fault). It shares what over 200 women said they wish they’d known before therapy and before taking next steps.

Because almost every woman said the same thing:

“If I’d known this sooner, therapy probably would have gone completely differently.”

If It's Not Adding Up After Betrayal

You’ve been running on empty for a long time. And somehow you still keep going.

After discovering her husband’s betrayal, that’s what women do because they love their families. Even when it’s emotional torture, most betrayed wives don’t fall apart.

They do the opposite.

I’ve interviewed over 200 women who experienced betrayal trauma, and every single one of them somehow found the strength to keep navigating:

  • counseling
  • supporting his “recovery”
  • reading marriage books
  • giving him space
  • using I statements
  • working on themselves
  • staying patient
  • keeping the home running and meeting all the kids needs
  • taking advice from family and friends

If your husband betrayed you, I’m absolutely certain you’ve done everything a responsible, loyal, committed woman would do.

But let me guess, none of it seems to have helped you?

This is For You If...

you've spent years in couple therapy

you’ve discovered your husband has been lying

Your Husband Uses Inappropriate Media & No One Thinks It's A Big Deal

You're Wondering if He's Emotionally Abusive

What’s Inside...

A Crystal-Clear Explanation of His Thought Process
the “why” most women never get access to

Examples of the Exact Patterns You’re Seeing
…and what they actually mean

Real-Life Illustrations from 200+ Women
patterns revealed by women who’ve lived it

Downloadable Workbook
or just use blank paper

13 Meditations for Immediate Peace
for whenever you feel overwhelmed

What You’ll Walk Away With

A completely different understanding of your relationship,
without pressure, without labels, and without fear.

$27 $85

Answers After Betrayal

Meet the Teacher

Expert Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Anne Blythe, M.Ed

Author, Founder & Executive Director

Anne is the Producer and Host of the The BTR.ORG Podcast and the author of Trauma Mama Husband Drama.

After spending seven years trying to make sense of her marriage and another eight years navigating the aftermath, Anne has interviewed more than 200 women who’ve experienced betrayal. Her work is grounded in their stories, in knowing exactly what women wished they’d known when they were confused, scared, and trying to hold their families together.

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This is the first thing (since I found out about my husband’s betrayal) that’s actually helped me feel excited about my future.

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I couldn’t sleep after I found out my husband had been lying to me for years. But now, I fall asleep listening to one of Anne’s meditation almost every night.

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

So validating, powerful, and relevant. I NEEDED THIS. Every woman who has been betrayed by her husband needs this. Why isn’t anyone else teaching this stuff?

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I was at wit’s end after going to multiple therapists after my husband’s infidelity. I’d tried everything. This finally helped me figure out why things hadn’t been working. Thank you, Anne!

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This so clearly shows the toxic communication patterns he was using. It was like Anne had screenshots of my husband’s texts. I wish I would have known this four years ago!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

I’d been going to therapy for years. I was so sick of hearing myself talk about it. This helped me more than years of talk therapy!

Betrayal Trauma Podcast

Your workshop helped me see what to do instead of go the rounds with him. So much better than the advice the therapist gave me that never worked.

Frequently asked questions

What is Clarity After Betrayal?

A series of short videos sharing what 200+ women wish they’d known sooner (before therapy, confrontation, or trying harder backfired).

Total Run Time: 2 Hours, 43 Minutes

Includes an optional workbook. Many women simply watch the videos.

Plus 13 Meditations for immediate peace.

Who is this for?

Women who feel confused, unsettled, or stuck after betrayal—especially if you’ve already tried talking, forgiving, improving, or “doing your part.”

What if I’m not sure whether his behavior counts as betrayal?

That uncertainty is exactly why this workshop exists. You don’t need proof or labels—just the sense that something isn’t right.

If you want to heal from your husband’s betrayal, YES, you need this clarity you’ll get from this workshop!

Will this help if he denies everything or says I’m overreacting?

Yes. The videos explain what 200+ women shared about this exact thing. It will give you answers even when you’re not sure if he’s telling the truth (or if he has a history of lying).

Will this tell me what decision to make?

No. It won’t push you to stay or leave. It just gives you information so you can do what’s right for you with confidence.

Do I need to confront him after this?

You can if you want. But the answer is no. This is confidential and won’t require you to do anything. In fact, many women feel relief because they stop feeling pressured to explain, prove, or convince.

What if I’m overwhelmed or emotionally exhausted?

After interviewing over 200 women about this, I know you’re overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted. So I laid out all the information in a gentle way to reduce overwhelm.

Plus, I’ve included 13 Meditations to help you when you desperately need immediate peace.

Is this therapy?

No. It’s simply laying out the patterns that over 200 women told me they wished they knew about sooner, before they scheduled couple therapy or addiction recovery for their husband.

Is this private?

Yes. You can watch the videos quietly, on your own, without anyone else knowing.

How will the charge show up on my card?

It will show up as help.btr.org which goes to a female “wellness” site to give an extra layer of privacy for women who need it.

CLARITY AFTER BETRAYAL

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